Finding Calm in the Middle of the Chaos
Finding Calm in the Middle of the Chaos
Do you ever feel like your mind is a tornado of thoughts, constantly bouncing between family needs, work demands, and your own worries? You're not alone. Many of us experience internal chaos, but it's rarely discussed. In this blog post, we’re diving deep into why we feel overwhelmed, what’s actually going on in our brains, and practical strategies for finding calm amidst the chaos.
What Happens When Stress Hijacks Your Brain
When stress hits, it doesn’t just make us feel overwhelmed—it literally changes the way our brain functions. Our brain’s frontal lobe, responsible for executive function (things like decision-making, problem-solving, and planning), starts to shut down. In its place, our brain enters "fight or flight" mode, which triggers the stress response and makes it hard to focus, make decisions, or take action.
This is why you may find yourself saying things like, “I can’t focus,” or “I can’t make a decision,” or even "Why can't I just get it together?" These aren’t signs of personal failure or lack of willpower—they're a result of how your brain is wired to react to stress. The good news is that by understanding this process, you can take steps to manage the chaos, rather than letting it control you.
The Importance of Planning Your Week
One of the most effective ways to manage internal chaos is by planning your week in advance. While time-blocking and rigid schedules may work for some, many of us find it stressful. Instead, try this simple method: every Sunday morning, take a few minutes to jot down everything you need to do throughout the week. Use a paper planner and color-code your tasks—this not only helps you stay organized but also activates the brain in a way that slows down the mental clutter.
When you plan your week, you're giving your brain a roadmap of what to expect. This reduces stress and makes it easier to move through the week with clarity and calm. For example, breaking down your tasks into smaller, manageable steps prevents that feeling of being overwhelmed and keeps you focused on what matters most.
Why Writing by Hand Helps
You may have heard that writing things down helps you remember them. But did you know that writing by hand also helps your brain slow down and process information more effectively? Unlike typing on a keyboard, writing by hand engages different areas of the brain, allowing you to focus and think through the tasks at hand.
Using a paper planner, or even just jotting down a quick list, can help calm your brain and organize your thoughts. It’s a simple, yet powerful tool for staying on top of everything, without the mental overload.
Small Shifts for Big Change
Taking control of your stress and creating space in your brain doesn’t happen overnight, but by making small shifts, you can start feeling lighter. For example, taking a moment to breathe deeply can help calm your nervous system and bring you back to the present moment. Just taking three slow, deep breaths can activate your frontal lobe, bringing clarity and focus back to your day.
In addition to breathing exercises, taking a few minutes each day to visualize a calming place can help reset your mind. Whether it’s imagining a beach, a mountain retreat, or your childhood home, visualization can help you step out of the chaos and into a place of calm.
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